Now you and Finn are new in a talking stage. You haven’t made it to situationship so don’t get too excited, but on your way there they say, “No I don’t talk to my exes, they’re all crazy”. You stop for a moment and you feel your heart stop on a needle. Finn has just said a forbidden phrase you must now decipher. You take pause, and contemplate you have no way to verify if that person is struggling or not. Plus, there is now this super easy excuse that writes off blame and responsibility, for Finn.